What does society want?

Hey guys. So recently, I've been thinking a lot about the society. Our society will never be satisfied. In fact, us humans, will never be satisfied. For example, if you are skinny, people think you're anorexic. If you're chubby, people think you're obese. If you're a virgin, you're too good, if you're a non-virgin, you're a slut. If you are friendly, you're fake, and if you're quiet, you're rude or anti-social. So what exactly does our society want from us? 

We probably live each day trying to satisfy someone. And if you fail at that, you will perhaps be left out of the group. So to avoid being cast out, we try our very best. Our very best to be someone unreal, try to be perfect, try to be someone who is not what we are. We fake our character and our personality, just so we can fit in. But hey, have you ever thought about what satisfies YOU? What makes you happy? Does being someone unreal make you happy? 

To be with people who only likes the perfect you, its not worth it at all. I'd rather you be yourself, and attract those who like you for who you are. I think that is where you belong. That is where you will truly fit in and be happy. Where you don't even have to try and you can satisfy everyone. These people can bring out the best in you and show others how capable you are. 

That aside, nowadays, society also go for what's on the outside. A pretty face with an ugly heart is beautiful. An average face with a beautiful heart is ugly. Just one look at you, you are already labelled as beautiful or ugly, just based on your looks. They don't even give you a chance to prove yourself. This is what our society has turned into, a world filled with judgement and ridicules. Maybe there is nothing we can do about it. We cannot change the way people think, we can only change our perspectives. But i just wanna let you guys know that it really isn't worth faking everything to satisfy the society. Satisfy yourself. Love yourself enough and stay true to that. Don't listen to all the bullshit this society is giving. Listen to yourself. With that, hope you guys had a great Christmas! Enjoy the last few days of the year before a new one begins! Goodnight!

Note to self: To be beautiful is to be YOURSELF. You don't need to be accepted by OTHERS. You need to accept YOURSELF. 

Signing off with a peekture of my favourite bear!^^